Episode 400 – It's All About Families
Isn't The Family Gamers Podcast always about families? Yes, but we're doing a special focus on different ages this week, as a sort of retrospective over the last ten years.
00:00 Fact for 400
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03:45 What We've Been Playing
Canvas Critters (coming to crowdfunding soon (https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/th3rdworldstudios/canvas-critters) – from 3WS and Katia Howatson (https://www.thefamilygamers.com/episode-247-katia-howatson/) )
Unmatched: Battle of Legends volume 3 (Blackbeard vs. Loki)
Micro Macro Kids: Crazy City Park (review linked below)
Royal Visit – making it work in a small space, as we imagined all the way back in episode 278 (https://www.thefamilygamers.com/episode-278-travel-games/) .
Toriki: The Castaway Island
Floristry (our review (https://www.thefamilygamers.com/floristry/) ) “the perfect date game”
Hutan: Life in the Rainforest – played solo. But now also available on Board Game Arena (https://boardgamearena.com/gamepanel?game=hutan) !
18:10 The Family Gamers Community
We just passed 1000 members in the community. (https://www.facebook.com/groups/familygamersaa/posts/4077580319198094/) Thanks for sticking with us!
Giveaway Winners: Seth (Avant Carde) and Candice (Avatar the Last Airbender: Aang's Destiny)
Backtalk: Room to Grow
We asked what you'd like to see in a future Room to Grow series. Thanks for the responses on Discord! (https://discord.com/channels/1157003438425653379/1239323617368604672)
24:00 SNAP Review – Micro Macro Kids: Crazy City Park
(https://www.thefamilygamers.com/micro-macro-kids-city/)
We review the newest entry in the Micro Macro series. This one is 100% appropriate for kids, and adds some tools that will help ANYONE who wants to play this seek-and-find game.
Watch the video or read the transcript of our review. (https://www.thefamilygamers.com/micro-macro-kids-city/)
30:20 FOR SCIENCE
We drink a pickle juice electrolyte drink: JUCE from TruPickles (https://trupickles.com/collections/juce) .
Why? Because they're also a partner with friend-of-the-show Andy Geremia (https://www.thefamilygamers.com/tag/andy-geremia/) for a pickleball dice game (https://trupickles.com/pages/pickleball-dice) .
34:00 The Family Gamers and Families
In August, The Family Gamers Podcast turns ten years old! Playing games with kids looks a lot different for us now than it did in 2015. Let's talk about what family gaming looks like at different ages.
Babies & Toddlers
Do you have to just wait to play games? Kind of, but not exactly. Toddlers want to be a part of what you're doing: so let them sit with you and play with some of the (larger/non-chewable) pieces. We also recommend playing with them with big chunky foam dice or “My Very First” games (https://www.thefamilygamers.com/tag/toddler/) .
This is when kids begin to learn about taking turns or causality (“if I do this, then this happens”).
More: Ep 236 – Babies & Boardgames (https://www.thefamilygamers.com/episode-236-babies-and-boardgames/) (bringing kids in at any age)
Preschoolers
At this age, kids want play the same very short games over and over and over… as frustrating as this can be, it's really important. Playing repetitively works on building rule-following, turn-taking, and pattern-matching. This is the right time to start teaching about being a graceful winner or loser (https://www.thefamilygamers.com/4-ways-sore-loser/) and also to start building emotional intelligence (https://www.thefamilygamers.com/color-monster-game/) . Yes, even with CandyLand. (https://www.thefamilygamers.com/why-i-hate-candy-land/)
Grade School
The most important thing at this age is to know your kids' skill level. Too hard and they'll be discouraged. That doesn't mean letting them win! But you could set up a handicap so the adult is playing at a disadvantage. And you can talk through your strategy (and theirs) out loud to help them learn.
To avoid the stigma of playing a “baby” game or a “kids” game, be ready to pull out some VERY easy games that anyone can play like Roll for It or Zombie Dice.
At this age, use games to build skills gradually for reading (including skills that don't look like reading!) (https://www.thefamilygamers.com/reading-skills-boardgames/) , math (https://www.thefamilygamers.com/gameschool-ela-math/) , science (https://www.thefamilygamers.com/science-games/) , and more.
Middle & High School
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